CHILD SAFETY RESOURCES

TOGETHER, WE CAN KEEP OUR KIDS SAFE.

Take a look at some of these helpful resources from other organizations that share the Y's commitment to the safety of children.

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CHILD ABUSE / NEGLECT

  • Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline - Anonymous reporting: 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453)
  • DCFS - (855) 323-3237 - "DCFS protective role regarding child abuse and neglect - At Child and Family Services (DCFS) our focus is child safety, and working to strengthen parents and caregivers who are otherwise unable to meet their own child’s needs. Our work is focused on effective interventions regarding safety issues related to child abuse and neglect. After a report of child abuse or neglect is accepted for DCFS assessment, an assigned caseworker will first determine whether a community referral could address concerns in the home or if ongoing in-home services are needed to support the family and allow the child to remain safely in the home. If it is recommended that a child be brought temporarily into state care due to safety concerns in the home, DCFS will work with the parents toward reunification when appropriate and connect them to services to assist them in building their capacity to safely care for their child."
  • KNOW. SEE. RESPOND. Reporting Form - Anonymous online Reporting Form. Anonymous Reporting Hotline number: 720-617-7201
  • Utah Department of Health & Human Services - 1-855-323-DCFS (3237)
  • Utah Domestic Violence Coalition (phone numbers separated by county) - Local Resources and Victim Services
  • Prevent Child Abuse Utah (PCAU) - The state chapter of the national organization Prevent Child Abuse America. PCAU holds local events and provides training and program opportunities to schools, parents and communities to help prevent child abuse.
  • Utah Children’s Justice Centers - 25 safe, child-focused locations throughout Utah where children up to age 18 can be interviewed and receive coordinated services during the child abuse investigative process.
  • Prevent Child Abuse - The Division of Child and Family Services works with community partners to prevent child abuse and neglect through services that include parenting classes, evidence-based home visitation programs, crisis nurseries and school-based education presentations.
  • Child Protective Services (CPS)
  • Abuse Prevention Introduction
  • Recognize Abuse and it's Warning Signs
  • How to Talk to Youth About Abuse
  • How to Respond to Child Abuse
  • 6 Key Questions a Parent Should Ask of a Camp
  • Darkness to Light
  • Utah Rape and Sexual Assault Crisis and Information Line - 1.888.421.1100 - Statewide 24/7 toll-free hotline providing information and assistance.
  • Utah Domestic Violence Coalition

CHILD MENTAL HEALTH

  • 211Utah - DIAL 2-1-1 - Connects individuals in need to services available to them such as housing, health clinics, food resources, legal aid and more.
  • Utah Association of Family Support Centers - Provides a 24/7 hotline services at 18 locations across Utah that include counseling, crisis/respite nurseries and crisis shelters, education and more.
  • SAFEUT App - Provides confidential counseling services and access to a crisis line via chat or phone. Counseling topics include mental health issues, suicide prevention, loss or grief, bullying and cyberbullying and more.
  • Utah Mental Health Agencies

food insecurity

  • Utah Food Bank - Utah Food Bank distributes food free-of-charge to a network of 150 partner agencies located throughout all 29 counties of our state.
  • Utah Women, Infants, and Children Program (WIC) - The Utah WIC program provides services and supplemental foods to pregnant women, new mothers, infants and children up to their 5th birthday. They offer one-on-one nutrition counseling as well as offer a wide-array of nutrition education, personalized breastfeeding support, referrals to other public health programs and health care providers.
  • Apply for Food Stamps
  • Apply for Medicaid

internet safety

homelessness

 

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5 DAYS OF ACTION

At the Y, we believe ALL children deserve the opportunity to discover who they are, and what they can achieve. Every day, we are proud and respectful of the trust parents and communities around the country place in the Y. From youth sports and overnight summer camp; from out-of-school time to preschool; we work to ensure your children have a safe, fun filled experience.

Child protection is our number one priority year-round. During April–Child Abuse Prevention Month–we participate in a week-long campaign called Five Days of Action to increase awareness of child sexual abuse and empower and equip our communities to prevent it. By taking part in this important campaign and through implementing abuse prevention practices year-round, we can all commit to the safety of all children in our care.

The Know. See. Respond. campaign continues and Praesidium, Saprea, and Lauren's Kids have shared resources to support this campaign. We pledge to protect the children we serve and hope you will too! Click the link below to download a printable version of the 2025 Five Days of Action Pledge Card!

DOWNLOAD THE 2025 FIVE DAYS OF ACTION CARD


WHAT WE KNOW TODAY

  • 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys in the U.S. experience sexual abuse by the age of 18.
  • 90 percent of children who are abused know the abuser.
  • There are more than 42 million survivors of child sexual abuse in the U.S. Yet, many child victims may never disclose their abuse.
  • 1 in 5 children is solicited sexually on the Internet before the age of 18.

HOW WE CREATE SAFE SPACES FOR CHILDREN & TEENS

As an organization, we have taken the following actions to keep kids safe in our Y facilities, camps and programs and maintain the reputation of safety we have built during our 175-year history.All Ys in the U.S. are required to implement child sexual abuse prevention practices and policies to remain a member in good standing with the National Council of YMCAs. These requirements include:

  • Completing a child abuse prevention self-assessment (created by a Y-USA-approved vendor) at least every two (2) years and implement an Action Plan to address opportunities for improvement.
  • Having a policy that requires criminal background checks for staff and volunteers
  • Providing and requiring annual training for staff and high-access volunteers on preventing and responding to youth-to-youth sexual activity and adult-to-child sexual activity or abuse
  • In addition to requiring all staff and volunteers to report child abuse in accordance with applicable laws, all allegations of sexual abuse or victimization of minors (under 18) involving Y staff, volunteers, members or participants must be reported to the appropriate authorities.
  • Having a policy that requires screening all adults against a national sex offender registry and written protocol for how to respond when adults are identified as registered sex offenders
  • Implementing policies that define boundaries with youth
  • Implementing procedures for identifying and managing high-risk activities
  • Assigning youth protection to a leadership staff member’s responsibility and a committee’s chart of work
  • Reporting the following events to Y-USA:
    • Allegations and/or criminal charges of child abuse, child sexual exploitation, or child sexual misconduct involving a current or former YMCA staff, volunteer, or member (including incidents related to the YMCA and outside of the YMCA)
    • Allegations of sexual abuse, sexual exploitation, or sexual misconduct between youth participants in attendance at a YMCA and/or enrolled in YMCA activities.

YMCAs have access to resources to assist them in meeting these requirements. Provided by and facilitated by Y-USA, these resources are accessible through Link, our internal knowledge-sharing platform for YMCA staff.

  1. We engage external experts in abuse prevention (Praesidium) to work with all 2,600 Ys across the country and provide access to a comprehensive self-assessment as well as best practices in screening, training, supervision and reporting practices.
  2. We partner with passionate local Y leaders who facilitate peer-to-peer learning and continuously improve and strengthen Y abuse-prevention efforts. Specifically, we work alongside the YMCA Champions for Child Protection — a collective of Y CEOs committed to activating the power of the Y and other youth-serving organizations to engage communities, improve internal operations and advance policy and environmental change to protect children from sexual abuse.
  3. We work closely with strategic partners to advance federal policies that seek to protect children from various forms of abuse and neglect. Whether it’s passing the Child Protection Improvements Act (CPIA) into law or increasing funding for the Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA), our advocacy efforts reflect the Y’s commitment to child safety.

 


CHILD PROTECTION RESOURCES

Learn more about steps everyone can take to help create a culture of safety and prevent child sexual abuse.

Tips for Protecting Youth From Sexual Abuse

 

1. KNOW

KNOW how to recognize boundary violations and how offenders operate. It’s up to us as adults to do all we can to prevent child sexual abuse and create safe environments for children. Teaching children about their bodies, recognizing warning signs, and responding to any concerns are important first steps. Even very young children can learn some skills to help keep themselves safe from sexual abuse, but it’s up to parents to help them learn what they need to know. Here are some important things you can teach that will help you help your child stay safe.

Teach Your Child Rules About Touching Their Body

Preschoolers understand the idea of rules, such as rules about playing nicely with others and rules about being safe, like wearing seat belts. So as you teach these rules, just add rules about touching their bodies.

First, talk to your child about body parts, including private parts.This will give your child words to use when he/she needs to tell you anything about his/her body, like an injury or rash or other problem in that area.

Then add rules about private parts, like “Never let other people touch your private parts unless Mommy or Daddy knows about it.” Children also need to know what to do when someone breaks the rules about touching. Teach them:

  • What to say to someone who breaks the rules about touching
  • To move away from someone who is breaking the rules about touching
  • To tell you or another adult if someone breaks the rules about touching
  • Phrases so they can tell others to stop and practice saying them with your child
  • Teach your child to say this anyone who invades their privacy (other children as well as to adults)
  • To move away from anyone who is breaking the rules about touching
  • Tell your child that it’s ok to get out of someone’s lap or pull away from a hug, even if an adult asks them not to
  • To tell you or another adult, like a teacher or caregiver, if someone breaks the rules about touching them

 

 

 

2. SEE

SEE. Keep your eyes and ears open for signs of abuse and talk with your child, asking them about your concerns. If something is wrong, you may see a sudden change in your child’s behavior, or you may hear unusual comments. If you see or hear these things, follow up. Find a relaxed time to talk with them.

Child Abuse Warning Signs

  • Frequent or unexplained bruises or injury
  • Excessive talk about or knowledge of sexual topics
  • Unkempt or malnourished appearance
  • Bathing frequently; obsessive cleanliness
  • Disturbed sleeping or eating patterns
  • Inability to stay awake or concentrate for extended periods
  • Abrupt changes in behavior, anxiety, clinging, aggressiveness or withdrawal
  • Sudden, dramatic changes in activities or personality
  • Sexually transmitted diseases and infections 
  • Fear of a certain person (this can include other minors) or place
  • Discomfort with physical contact
  • Keeping secrets / Not talking as much as usual
  • Not wanting to be left alone with certain people or being afraid to be away from primary caregivers, especially if this is a new behavior
  • Fearfulness or depression
  • Aggression toward adults or other children
  • Regressive behaviors or resuming behaviors they had grown out of, such as thumbsucking or bedwetting
  • Overly compliant behavior
  • Self-harming behaviors
  • Loss or decrease in interest in school, activities, and friends
  • Sexual behavior that is inappropriate for the child’s age
  • Spending an unusual amount of time alone
  • Change in eating habits
  • Nightmares or fear of being alone at night
  • Trying to avoid removing clothing to change or bathe
  • Abuse of other children
  • Nervousness around adults
  • Low self esteem

Watch for these things in adults that may signify potential abuse. Remember, offenders seek access, privacy & control.

Emotional Boundary Violations

  • Making them feel important, cared about and understood
  • Spending too much time with them
  • Choosing favorites
  • Giving gifts
  • Acting possessive
  • Sending excessive or inappropriate text messages
  • Pretending to be the child’s friend on social networking sites like Facebook
  • Sharing personal information to make the child feel like they have a special relationship
  • Promising extra coaching time, a college scholarship, a place on a national team or even an Olympic Team spot!

Physical Boundary Violations

  • Tickling
  • Horseplay
  • Hugging
  • Massaging
  • Wrestling
  • Going overboard with affection

Behavioral Boundary Violations

  • Offenders manipulate kids into doing things they wouldn’t otherwise do, such as:
  • Sneaking around by saying they will be in one place when actually they are in another
  • Keep secrets with the offender
  • Look at pornography
  • Use drugs or alcohol

 

 

 

3. RESPOND

RESPOND. If you see warning signs from your child or adult, or you hear about something that sounds like abuse, report it immediately.

If your child tells you about sexual abuse or inappropriate behavior, here’s how to react. Your response plays a big role in how your child understands abuse and how they recover.

  1. Stay calm.
  2. Comfort your child.
  3. Listen carefully.
  4. Ask for examples.
  5. Do not threaten or criticize the person your child is accusing.

If what you learn from your child or if what you’ve observed or overheard at practice sounds like abuse, call Child Protective Services or the police. If what you learn from your child, or if what you’ve observed or overheard at practice, sounds like a boundary violation, suspicious or inappropriate behavior, or a policy violation, then:

  1. Share your concerns with the employee, supervisor, or the person in charge of your organization. Be sure to follow up with both your child and the adult you’ve talked to.
  2. If you are unable to do this, you can utilize the KNOW. SEE. RESPOND. Anonymous Reporting Form, linked below. You may also call and leave a message on the KNOW. SEE. RESPOND. Anonymous Reporting Hotline at (720) 617-7201.

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